A growing body of research is showing that midlife is a critical window for chronic pain in women, and hormones are a big part of that story (Pavlović & Derby, 2022). Yet most of the time, pain is left out of the menopause conversation in favor of hot flashes, mood changes, or sleep problems.
One study that piqued my interest looked at a very specific group: midlife female veterans. What the researchers found says a lot about how hormones, chronic pain, and life stress overlap, and why so many women feel dismissed when they say that everything started hurting around menopause.
A Niche but Important Study: Midlife Female Veterans
In 2019, researchers analyzed health records from more than 200,000 female veterans between the ages of 45 and 64 who had at least one visit in the VA system (Gibson et al., 2019). Women who have served in the military, often with higher exposure to trauma, injuries, and stress make a great sample population for this study.
Here’s what they found:
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26% of these women had documented menopausal symptoms in their medical record.
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52% had a diagnosis of chronic pain.
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22% had two or more different chronic pain diagnoses (Gibson et al., 2019).
When the researchers adjusted for other factors (age, race, BMI, mental health conditions, and substance use disorders) they found something striking...
--> Women with existing menopause symptoms had almost double the odds of having chronic pain, and of having multiple chronic pain conditions compared to women without documented menopause symptoms (Gibson et al., 2019).
In other words, the more significant the menopause symptom burden, the higher the likelihood of a chronic pain diagnosis.
This doesn’t prove that hormones cause pain simply on their own, but it strongly suggests that menopause symptoms and pain are intertwined in ways our healthcare system hasn’t fully caught up with yet.
Why Midlife Is a “Pain Tipping Point” for Women
A 2022 commentary in Women’s Midlife Health called pain during this time a “growing problem in need of further research” (Pavlović & Derby, 2022). Women already have higher rates of chronic pain and pain-related disability than men, and midlife is when pain complaints start to climb sharply, even in women who don’t have new diagnoses like arthritis or injury.
Despite this, pain is rarely recognized as a menopause-related symptom outside of menopause research circles themselves.
So many women are told “you’re just getting older, “it’s stress," “your labs look fine."
But behind the scenes, there’s a complex hormonal story running through your nervous system, your muscles and joints, and your brain’s pain-processing circuits.
How Hormones Shape Pain: A Quick Science Snapshot
Pain isn’t just about what’s happening in your joints or tissues, but also about how your nervous system interprets those signals. That process is highly influenced by hormones.
1. Estrogen & Pain Modulation
Research has shown that sex hormones like estradiol (a form of estrogen) and testosterone both regulate our sensitivity to pain, and can manage the effects of pain medications (Craft et al., 2004).
In many women:
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Fluctuating or low estrogen can increase pain sensitivity.
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Hormone shifts around the menstrual cycle, pregnancy, and menopause can change how strongly you feel pain or how well pain treatments work.
During the menopause transition, estrogen levels don’t just gently decline, they swing and crash before eventually falling to a lower baseline. Those ups and downs can impact:
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Nerve sensitivity
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Inflammation
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Sleep quality
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Mood and stress hormones like cortisol
All of which directly influence how much pain your brain “reads” from the same bodily signals.
2. Symptom Clusters: It’s Not Just One Thing
Midlife research is also showing that symptoms tend to cluster rather than show up alone: pain, hot flashes, sleep disturbance, low mood, brain fog, and fatigue often travel together (Harlow et al., 2017, Pavlović & Derby, 2022).
If you’re dealing with:
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Night sweats → poor sleep → higher pain sensitivity
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Mood changes → more stress → amplified pain pathways
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Weight gain + decreased activity → more joint & back pain
…then chronic pain is not just a random extra problem. It’s part of a whole-body, hormone-influenced network.
Why the Female Veteran Study Matters
The women in the VA study weren’t just any midlife population. Many had higher rates of PTSD, depression, and anxiety, all of which can magnify pain and make the nervous system more reactive. They were living in a system where physical and psychological injuries often overlap, yet even there, menopause symptoms turned out to be a distinct signal associated with more pain.
That’s what makes this study such a powerful “niche” example. It validates that the menopause symptom burden is more than an inconvenience - it may be a marker of heightened vulnerability to chronic pain. It highlights the need for pain-aware menopause care, especially in women carrying other burdens like trauma, military service, or chronic stress.
It also warns clinicians not to silo pain and menopause into separate boxes. For midlife women, they are often a part of the same story.
What This Means for You (and Your Body)
If you’re in midlife and thinking, “My symptoms don’t feel separate - everything is connected,” you’re right.
1. Your Pain Deserves to Be Taken Seriously
Chronic pain in midlife women is so common and under-recognized. It is not solely just anxiety, just hormones, or just aging.
If you’re experiencing:
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Ongoing joint, muscle, pelvic, neck, or back pain
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Worsening headaches or migraines
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Pain layered on top of hot flashes, sleep issues, or mood shifts
Ask your provider to put the whole picture together, not just discuss one symptom at a time!
2. Track Your Symptoms Together
Because pain, sleep, mood, and vasomotor symptoms (like hot flashes) often cluster, it can help to track them together for a month or two:
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Rate your daily pain (0–10)
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Note hot flashes/night sweats, and themes from those days (what you ate, type of exercise or skipped exercise, alcohol consumption, did you get enough sleep the night before, etc.)
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Track sleep quality and mood
Patterns can give you and your provider clues: Does your pain spike when your menopause symptoms flare? That’s information that supports a more hormone-aware plan.
3. Think “Nervous System Care” as Well as Local Pain Care
Hormone shifts also act on the nervous system, meaning nervous system–calming practices can be powerful tools right now:
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Gentle strength work and walking (as tolerated)
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Breathwork, meditation, or somatic practices to help dial down fight-or-flight response in the body
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Anti-inflammatory nutrition, blood sugar balance, and adequate protein
These don’t replace medical treatment, but they support the system that’s amplifying pain.
A New Menopause Narrative: Pain Belongs in the Conversation
One of the biggest takeaways from all this research? Pain is not a side note in menopause. For many women, it’s a central feature of the transition.
Midlife women, especially those with higher symptom burdens, histories of trauma, or overlapping health issues , may be at highest risk for chronic pain (Gibson et al., 2019; Pavlović & Derby, 2022).
That doesn’t mean you’re doomed to hurt forever. It means:
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You’re not imagining the link between your hormones and your pain. You are not crazy!
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It’s valid to bring up both in the same conversation with your healthcare team.
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We need more research and more nuanced care models that treat midlife women’s pain as real, complex, and worthy of attention.
Your experience is data. Your story matters. And your pain, especially in this hormonal transition, deserves to be heard and addressed, not brushed off as “just part of being a woman.”
References:
Craft, R. M., Mogil, J. S., & Aloisi, A. M. (2004). Sex differences in pain and analgesia: The role of gonadal hormones. European Journal of Pain, 8(5), 397–411. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.ejpain.2004.01.003
Gibson, Carolyn J. PhD, MPH; Li, Yongmei PhD; Bertenthal, Daniel MPH; Huang, Alison J. MD, MAS; Seal, Karen H. MD, MPH. Menopause symptoms and chronic pain in a national sample of midlife women veterans. Menopause 26(7):p 708-713, July 2019. | DOI: 10.1097/GME.0000000000001312
Harlow, S.D., Karvonen-Gutierrez, C., Elliott, M.R. et al. It is not just menopause: symptom clustering in the Study of Women’s Health Across the Nation. women's midlife health 3, 2 (2017). https://doi.org/10.1186/s40695-017-0021-y
Pavlović, J., Derby, C.A. Pain in midlife women: a growing problem in need of further research. women’s midlife health 8, 4 (2022). https://doi.org/10.1186/s40695-022-00074-x